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Weirdo101
Posted: Thursday, May 16, 2013 8:15:03 PM
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What do you do to hang out with your 6th grAde crush without seeming pushy?
Christine
Posted: Thursday, May 16, 2013 9:16:38 PM
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ice cream, hiking, bicycle
Tovarish
Posted: Friday, May 17, 2013 2:22:11 AM
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Sports, homework, library
Newagenda
Posted: Friday, May 17, 2013 5:30:41 AM
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My first choice would be going to the library and then riding bicycle to visit friends.
ithink140
Posted: Friday, May 17, 2013 11:26:46 AM
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Weirdo. You are eleven or twelve... yes? Why not talk to your parents? At best treat it as it... just a juvenile crush that at this stage is going nowhere.
oldstager
Posted: Friday, May 17, 2013 3:52:12 PM
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Dear Weirdo101:

I reserved myself because I thought that you will have a lot of responses.
(come in guys, remember when you were 12 or 13!! In my country they say: Or the deutch gay has taken control of your minds? :-)

I learned a word that has given to me a great service.

Depends.

What you decide depends on ...

What are your common interests? What are your schedules?
Do you practice violin at the same time he is in the gym?

You must talk all this with your crush.

And, absolutely. Your parents needs to know where you are all the time, who is your friend, ... maybe you don't want to share the details, but for your security you need to report on time. Allways.

I think you need some ideas, not a detailed recipe.

I want you a good time. Now and for the rest of your life.
But ... all, or almost all depends on your decisions.

Good luck.
leonAzul
Posted: Saturday, May 18, 2013 2:15:38 AM

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Weirdo101 wrote:
What do you do to hang out with your 6th grAde crush without seeming pushy?

To be honest, enjoy the feeling, and don't be in a hurry.

Boys at that age don't understand, and it is questionable if they ever will. It is a part of discovery that a crush is not always reciprocated. It is also a part of discovery to find out that sometimes what one is attracted to is not the person themselves, but rather an idealized concept of the person, or only one superficial aspect of that person.

This takes time to sort out. Mistakes will be made. Please don't be in a hurry.

Please take your time to cultivate critical thinking skills, for they can indeed be applied to affairs of the heart.

Yet nothing opens up a man's nose like a woman who seems to understand his interests, if she sincerely understands them.
Think
Prim*
Posted: Sunday, May 19, 2013 1:05:13 AM
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leonAzul wrote:

To be honest, enjoy the feeling, and don't be in a hurry.

[...] It is also a part of discovery to find out that sometimes what one is attracted to is not the person themselves, but rather an idealized concept of the person, or only one superficial aspect of that person.

This takes time to sort out. Mistakes will be made. Please don't be in a hurry.

Please take your time to cultivate critical thinking skills, for they can indeed be applied to affairs of the heart.

[...]


Well said, Leon. :)
You do have the qualities of being a good mentor.
almostfreebird
Posted: Sunday, May 19, 2013 1:55:59 AM
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Father
It's not time to make a change,
Just relax, take it easy.
You're still young, that's your fault,
There's so much you have to know.
Find a girl, settle down,
If you want you can marry.
Look at me, I am old, but I'm happy.

I was once like you are now, and I know that it's not easy,
To be calm when you've found something going on.
But take your time, think a lot,
Why, think of everything you've got.
For you will still be here tomorrow, but your dreams may not.

Son
How can I try to explain, cause when I do it turns away again.
It's always been the same, same old story.
From the moment I could talk I was ordered to listen.
Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away.
I know I have to go.

Father
It's not time to make a change,
Just sit down, take it slowly.
You're still young, that's your fault,
There's so much you have to go through.
Find a girl, settle down,
if you want, you can marry.
Look at me, I am old, but I'm happy.

Son
All the times that I cried, keeping all the things I knew inside,
It's hard, but it's harder to ignore it.
If they were right, I'd agree, but it's them they know not me.
Now there's a way and I know that I have to go away.
I know I have to go.
Christine
Posted: Sunday, May 19, 2013 9:29:03 PM
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Be a good listener.
Weirdo101
Posted: Monday, June 3, 2013 9:38:42 PM
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Thanks for all the advice, I wasn't looking to date him or anything like that, I'm only 11. I just wanted him to notice me a little. Either way, I don't like him like that anymore.
Kerry.P
Posted: Monday, June 3, 2013 11:38:12 PM
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Yeah - it happens like that sometimes.
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