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Premature Ejaculation is a problem; lets talk about it, I am in the age of near 50 and feels sexually strong as I was younger, but ejaculate earlier.
Dr.Paulo Amino told the 25 tips to control the premature ejaculation, but it is not accessible any how intimate the said tips, would be the beneficial of thousands.
Any useful tips would be welcome.
Thanks.
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[quote=entra_dive]Premature Ejaculation [i]is a problem; lets talk about it, I am in the age of near 50 and feels sexually strong as I was younger, but ejaculate earlier.
Dr.Paulo Amino told the 25 tips to control the premature ejaculation, but it is not accessible any how intimate the said tips, would be the beneficial of thousands.
Any useful tips would be welcome.
Thanks.
Any chance you could post the tips of Dr. Amino? or provide a link?
I think it is mostly a problem of the mind, not the over-eager part.
I have not had this problem, but sometimes experience the opposite, which can be frustrating (and tiring).
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There are many links could be searched by any search engine, but no single technique told; the doctor demands tocken, the problem of mankind is the business of Doctors. How can a doctor be happy when his client is in problem, [this is a hidden aspect of a picture].
It's not necessary that all techniques are successful, 1 or 2 might be matched.
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When I feel overly stimulated, I try to imagine that I am having sex with my ex-wife.
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TL Hobs wrote:When I feel overly stimulated, I try to imagine that I am having sex with my ex-wife. Me too! I mean my ex-wife, not yours.
}- Mark -{ ASPARAGUS Asparagus in a lean in a lean to hot. This makes it art and it is wet wet weather wet weather wet. —Gertrude Stein, Tender Buttons
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What do your current wives think about that?
That's called a 'thoughty' down here.
I always thought the policy was 'if you didn't do it right the first time, do it again'
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Tovarish wrote:What do your current wives think about that?
That's called a 'thoughty' down here.
I always thought the policy was 'if you didn't do it right the first time, do it again' Tovarish, I'm sure TL Hobs meant it was his way of putting off ejaculation. His current wife wouldn't know about it, because it was a thought. The end result is that she would benefit from it. Yes, but it's not like hammering another nail after the first one bends. The hammer needs to rest.
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DD, I am still chuckling over your word association. All good hammers get to have a rest, but not for too long.
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Tovarish wrote:DD, I am still chuckling over your word association. All good hammers get to have a rest, but not for too long. Yes, it's good to chuckle. I was hoping the OP would post the 25 tips he spoke of, so I could have one too (a chuckle, that is).
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Request to OP to post the 25 tips publically................ many others may want to check those. lol
Technically, I dont think it is premature ejaculation. Your excitement matures, then only you ejaculate. Dont you? ;) Think Think... And, if you are comparing to female's libido, a good number of males are supposed to ejaculate prematurely. Again, think.........
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Entra Dive is probably right, the bloke wants to get paid for the information.
My words of wisdom are people take sex and the associated problems far too seriously. Sex is not a contest.
Keep on chuckling DD.
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Tovarish wrote:Entra Dive is probably right, the bloke wants to get paid for the information.
My words of wisdom are people take sex and the associated problems far too seriously. Sex is not a contest.
Keep on chuckling DD. I agree that men take sex seriously. Women vary. The difference in attitudes can be seen in strip clubs. Everything for men is a contest, to a greater or lesser degree. We're like that. The guy in the urinal next to me, peeping sideways, and down ... it's a contest ... who's bigger?
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Just to be serious for a moment this topic reminds me of the old guy of 85 who was booked into an old folks home. One day after he arrived he met his old childhood sweetheart Daisy who was now 87 years old. They went to her room and had sex together just the once. three months later, Bert, that was his name, went to the doctor complaing of a pain in his crotch.
The doctor asked him what he had been up to and he confessed to having sex with Daisy three months earlier, 'Get back to her quickly' the doctor said 'you are about to ejaculate.'
He that increases in knowledge increases in pain.
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Oh Peter! (Groans with laughter.) That's terrible!
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Another 'nursing home funny'.
These two elderly people were an item, had meals together, walks in their wheelie frames together, & sat in the sun on the verandah together.
One day his lady friend had been replaced, out on the verandah, sharing the same crocheted knee rug, her hands covered.
The lady friend asked "What has she got that I haven't?'
Parkinsons was his reply.
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ha ha ha ha ha ha.................
Peter and Tovarish...........Good ones......
I recall:
A man thought for 30 years after marriage that he is very good at sex. Then doctor told him his wife has asthma.
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There you go Extra Drive, I think we have covered at least No1-No5 for you.
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Extra Drive, have you tried letting your potential just rest for a while in its nice snug enclosure. That's what I do, if I feel I may be about to realise myself before I'm ready. The lady probably won't mind.
Are you coming back, Extra Drive?
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The good news:
I have a cure:
Simply date the most fugly woman you can find! One that all the beer in Milwaukee won't make attractive.
The bad news:
Next problem: erectile dysfunction.
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Or worse, an STD
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I've never had a problem with premature ejaculation myself, but practicing kegals (yes, there are kegal exercises for guys) is a good way to increase your control over those muscles and not only prevent premature ejaculation, but it gives you more control over when you ejaculate. Practicing them has noticeably increased my own performance and made orgasms feel more intense.
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dingdong wrote:.
Are you coming back, Extra Drive? How can he come back? He is Entra Dive. But you and Tovarish have made him to drive something extra. Now, thats where it hurts. The original question. The Extra drive......... lol.  P.S: Entra Dive! please dont take it otherwise. I am just kidding.
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That was No 5
So were we, kidding that is.ha ha
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Extra Drive? Oh!  Entra Dive, where are you? (sorry, I don't often make mistakes like that; I blame Tovarish!)
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Blast those Aussie Women, they will get you into trouble every time!!!!!!
I couldn't resist a little 'word therapy'.
Sorry Ding Dong for making you an accomplice.
Sorry Entra Dive for making light of an issue that I feel is taken far toooo seriously, please look on the funny side of my apology.
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On a serious note, this is actually a serious problem. As nooblet said, Kegal exercises may help. Kegal excercises are not only for the pregnant women, but also for the men. Taking pills is another idea, but I personally donot advocate this.
A friend of mine (who is incidentally a therapist) once had told me that thinking something else (may be financial debts) while intercourse helps delay the ejaculation. See if it works.
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srirr wrote:
A friend of mine (who is incidentally a therapist) once had told me that thinking something else (may be financial debts) while intercourse helps delay the ejaculation. See if it works.
This works fine, if you keep still, as well. But, sad to say, it's not much fun. Maybe you could play 20 questions with your partner, instead?
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Keep still ????????????????????????????????????????????
Are you trying to put brakes on hurricane?
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srirr wrote:Keep still ????????????????????????????????????????????
Are you trying to put brakes on hurricane? More of a downgrade to refreshing breeze.
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I have no idea who Kegal is but assume it is the same as Pelvic Floor exercised?
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Oh yes all my dears, I am here beside you, thanks for your visiting at mine discussion, specially thanks to whom who made fun, it doesn't matter, I like fun; the "nooblet" and "radron" they both made this discussion useful and I got from these two.
And radron! you sent a good site-they covered a problem area efficiently, accordingly curing premature ejaculation and kegel excersises are interrelated we should try Hypnotic, meditation or relaxation therapies as well.
Search n Cruise more good tips!
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Depends how you masturbate. This is plainly not true if you design your masturbation to last.
Somebody...not sure who, said
You appear to be quiet an expert on this subject. Designer masturbation? So you know how to ding dong long, Ding Dong. Well they say practice makes perfect.
He that increases in knowledge increases in pain.
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[quote=peterhewett You appear to be quiet an expert on this subject. Designer masturbation? So you know how to ding dong, Ding Dong. Well they say practice makes perfect.[/quote] Practice makes perfect, but what...tool or the process or the outcome? 
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I would not claim to be an expert on anything. The OP asked for tips on premature ejaculation, and I tried to help. End of story.
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srirr, showing keen interest asked:
Practice makes perfect, but what...tool or the process or the outcome?
peter with little or no interest replied
You will have to ask Ding Dong, but I imagine all of the above.
He that increases in knowledge increases in pain.
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