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onsen
Posted: Friday, June 1, 2018 1:00:20 AM
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Hello,

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A. Plastic flowers have always been a particular hate of mine.
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Is the phrase 'a particular hate of mine' used to mean 'one of my particular hates'?

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B. pay child support [v phrase] to pay a regular amount of money to help support children of yours that you no longer live with: He had been paying child support for his two children since 1985.
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How will the meaning change if 'your children' is used instead of 'children of yours'?

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ChrisKC
Posted: Friday, June 1, 2018 4:13:49 AM

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The first sentence is grammatically correct, though of plastic flowers I think I would just say I don't like them or, they are a 'pet hate' (a soft hate) of mine. - I prefer real. natural ones.
The reason I say this is because "a particular hate" is on the edge of extreme or absolute. For example, a particular hate of mine is cruelty to animals that is more appropriate for the extreme end of the spectrum

Second question, "Children of yours" is not a sentence but would most likely be used in a disapproving way when referring to the children of parents. "Those children of yours have been very naughty."

So in context, both ways have the correct grammatical sense.
Romany
Posted: Friday, June 1, 2018 2:44:37 PM
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1) Yes - the two ways of phrasing it make no difference to the meaning re "particular hates". However, neither sentences sound particularly natural. The common way to express it is as a "pet hate" as Chris did. And again, it makes no difference whether you say "a pet hate of mine" or "one of my pet hates."

2) the same applies to "your children" or "children of yours".

But...as people today often marry more than once the phrase becomes a little more nuanced in respect to the law of child support. When two people who have children from previous relationships get together they'll refer to all of them as "my children" and treat all equally within the relationship. However, if the relationship breaks down, and the parents separate, a person will only be responsible for their own children, or any children born within the union. Thus, you only pay child support for "children of yours" i.e. those of your blood. By law, you won't be responsible for your partner's children who were born before the union, even if you regard them as "your children".

Of course, if you choose to continue to support all of them, that's your choice. But the law can't enforce the support of any but your own flesh and blood.
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