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rvw
Posted: Tuesday, August 16, 2011 8:17:43 AM
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As I get older, I forget things -- deliberately. I regret having wasted so much time wading through the popular culture, going up blind alleys, watching TV.

So much of our lives is wasted.

What do you think?

Now there's no way you can prove that the universe makes sense, but there's just no fun in living in the universe if it doesn't make sense... -- Asimov
uuaschbaer
Posted: Tuesday, August 16, 2011 8:51:29 AM

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I do those things too sometimes but I couldn't call it a waste unless I have a better alternative. What use would you put your spare time to?

The opposite of hatred is love; the opposite of tyranny is love; the opposite of censorship is love; the opposite of evil is love; the opposite of politics is love; the opposite of war is love; the opposite of god is love.–– Salman Rushdie
Broadly speaking, it is held that getting money is good and spending money is bad. Seeing that they are two sides of one transaction, this is absurd; one might as well maintain that keys are good, but keyholes are bad. Whatever merit there may be in the production of goods must be entirely derivative from the advantage to be obtained by consuming them. –Bertrand Russell
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Jyrkkä Jätkä
Posted: Tuesday, August 16, 2011 9:27:58 AM

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I agree with uuaschbaer and would like to share a quote from the first chapter of Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry:


Once when I was six years old I saw a magnificent picture in a book, called True Stories from Nature, about the primeval forest. It was a picture of a boa constrictor in the act of swallowing an animal. Here is a copy of the drawing.



In the book it said: "Boa constrictors swallow their prey whole, without chewing it. After that they are not able to move, and they sleep through the six months that they need for digestion."

I pondered deeply, then, over the adventures of the jungle. And after some work with a colored pencil I succeeded in making my first drawing. My Drawing Number One. It looked something like this:



I showed my masterpiece to the grown-ups, and asked them whether the drawing frightened them. But they answered: "Frighten? Why should any one be frightened by a hat?"

My drawing was not a picture of a hat. It was a picture of a boa constrictor digesting an elephant. But since the grown-ups were not able to understand it, I made another drawing: I drew the inside of a boa constrictor, so that the grown-ups could see it clearly. They always need to have things explained. My Drawing Number Two looked like this:



The grown-ups' response, this time, was to advise me to lay aside my drawings of boa constrictors, whether from the inside or the outside, and devote myself instead to geography, history, arithmetic, and grammar. That is why, at the age of six, I gave up what might have been a magnificent career as a painter. I had been disheartened by the failure of my Drawing Number One and my Drawing Number Two. Grown-ups never understand anything by themselves, and it is tiresome for children to be always and forever explaining things to them.

So then I chose another profession, and learned to pilot airplanes. I have flown a little over all parts of the world; and it is true that geography has been very useful to me. At a glance I can distinguish China from Arizona. If one gets lost in the night, such knowledge is valuable.

In the course of this life I have had a great many encounters with a great many people who have been concerned with matters of consequence. I have lived a great deal among grown-ups. I have seen them intimately, close at hand. And that hasn't much improved my opinion of them.

Whenever I met one of them who seemed to me at all clear-sighted, I tried the experiment of showing him my Drawing Number One, which I have always kept. I would try to find out, so, if this was a person of true understanding. But, whoever it was, he, or she, would always say:

"That is a hat."

Then I would never talk to that person about boa constrictors, or primeval forests, or stars. I would bring myself down to his level. I would talk to him about bridge, and golf, and politics, and neckties. And the grown-up would be greatly pleased to have met such a sensible man.


I don't know half of you half as well as I should like; and I like less than half of you half as well as you deserve.
jacobusmaximus
Posted: Tuesday, August 16, 2011 12:50:37 PM

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I thought it was Ayres Rock. It is said that elephants live in Ayers Rock. I have just said it.
Geeman
Posted: Tuesday, August 16, 2011 5:20:10 PM

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rvw wrote:
As I get older, I forget things -- deliberately. I regret having wasted so much time wading through the popular culture, going up blind alleys, watching TV.

So much of our lives is wasted.

What do you think?

I don't particularly make an effort to forget things, but I have noticed that I do tend to "let things go" a lot more now that I'm older. Recently, I met up for lunch with someone I knew and grew up with as a child, and got a little nostalgic. I honestly didn't remember 3/4 of the people or events she did. Maybe that's a man/woman thing to a certain extent, but I just don't think about the people I knew in high school, or the high school experience all that much--excepting, of course, a low-grade resentment and annoyance at that whole humiliating point in life.
Ray41
Posted: Wednesday, August 17, 2011 1:59:37 AM

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It is cold and wet outside so I thought that I would check my emails.
Not much of consequence, so, I looked in TFD.
I saw the link JJ posted and started reading. 27 chapters later I had read all of the Little Prince.
Did I waste my time? I don't think so as I found the story intriguing, a refreshing glimpse of a life as seen through the eyes of a true story teller. Thank you JJ.
I cannot afford regret at what I may or may not have done in the past,so there is no point wading through my memories cataloguing what I could have changed.

If any of my past had changed,or been different, then where would I be now?

My life is a journey in which I chose the path, and sometimes it was chosen for me, but, I am here now, travelling time is running out.

I shall not waste the time I have left regretting the past. I have too much to look forward to.

RULES ARE FOR THE OBEYENCE OF FOOLS AND FOR THE GUIDENCE OF WISE MEN
srirr
Posted: Wednesday, August 17, 2011 2:04:46 AM

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I would say "Best out of waste".



We are responsible for what we are, and whatever we wish ourselves to be, we have the power to make ourselves. ~ Swami Vivekanand
Truthseeker
Posted: Wednesday, August 17, 2011 10:50:38 AM

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Wading through the popular culture, going up blind alleys, and watching TV can be significant learning experiences. It all depends on what we do with the information we have gained.



Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself. Leo Tolstoy
pedro
Posted: Wednesday, August 17, 2011 11:11:52 AM

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We'll have plenty of time to waste when we're dead.

"Millions long for immortality who don't know what to do with themselves on a rainy Sunday afternoon" Suzanne Ertz
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