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Ashwin Joshi
Posted: Sunday, October 14, 2018 11:06:37 AM

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Location: Jandiāla Guru, Punjab, India
Beautiful stars in the night
Beautiful stars shining bright
Wondering what is beyond that life
Wondering if it's my lost loved wife

I never realized how much I loved her
But I know she loved me, this I'm sure.
To this day I remember her embrace
Through the stars I can see her face

Though the fall colors look so leaven
The fall also brings October seven
On that day I miss her so
She was my best friend, nowhere near my foe

I thought this day couldn't get worse
The fall must be the family curse
With the beautiful autumn sky
I never thought it would be the day I too would die

Beautiful stars in the night
Beautiful stars shining bright
Wondering what is beyond the sky
Maybe it's just the family's eye




Source: https://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/stars-at-night

* I lost my beautiful and loving wife (66) on 7th October 2018 suddenly of a massive heart attack. She died in the hotel where we were putting up, on a pleasure tour 3000 kms away from home.Not talking Not talking


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jacobusmaximus
Posted: Sunday, October 14, 2018 2:56:33 PM

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It is brave and generous of you, Ashwin, to share your grief with us here. Many of us will have lost someone dear to us, often in unforeseeable circumstances when it can hurt so much. Be assured of sympathy and prayers for you and your family, that you will be comforted and encouraged to cherish and honour your lovely wife's memory.

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Hope123
Posted: Sunday, October 14, 2018 3:21:00 PM

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So sorry, Joshi. There are no words that really help but know that posters on the Forum are thinking of you in your grief.

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Sarrriesfan
Posted: Sunday, October 14, 2018 5:11:01 PM

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You have my deepest sympathies at this sad time Ashwin Joshi.

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BobShilling
Posted: Monday, October 15, 2018 12:39:04 AM
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You are in my thoughts, Ashwin.
Epiphileon
Posted: Monday, October 15, 2018 9:38:54 AM

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I am very sorry to hear that Ashwin, I can not imagine the shock and loss. Hang on tight and remember the love you shared, it is a precious rock upon which to be anchored through this time.

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FounDit
Posted: Monday, October 15, 2018 1:03:41 PM

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You have my deepest sympathies, Ashwin Joshi. I have been where you are, and it is impossible to express how deep that hurt goes.

Others told me it would get better with time, but it was almost impossible to believe at that moment.

However, I can assure you that the hurt does diminish with time. Stay strong, as I am sure she would want you to be.


We should look to the past to learn from it, not destroy our future because of it — FounDit
Romany
Posted: Tuesday, October 16, 2018 6:21:54 AM
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Oh Ashwin, how very awful for you!

I hope you take up offers of family and friends to help you through this time. We are here to offer condolances and to let you know that we are all thinking of you - but let those around you help with the practical things.

Though it seems impossible now, the day will come when you will think of you wife and smile at a memory or laugh at something you both once did together - and you will realise that though she may be gone, you have the memory of a wonderful woman and your life with her...and that can never be taken away from you as she was.
Stay strong, sure. But cry when you need to as well.
Hope123
Posted: Monday, October 22, 2018 8:09:27 PM

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How are you hanging in there, Ashwin Joshi? Please keep us posted?

The party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes/ears. It was their final, most essential command Orwell 1984
Ashwin Joshi
Posted: Wednesday, October 24, 2018 4:10:08 AM

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Thanks all for words of great solace.

Still busy in post-death rituals. Relatives come and go.

Trying to get stronger.

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kirtipathak121
Posted: Monday, December 10, 2018 12:47:49 AM
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Really felt sorry for this unfortunate happening with you. May her soul rest in peace. My prayers are with you and your family.
RuthP
Posted: Tuesday, December 11, 2018 7:59:45 PM

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Ashwin,

I am very sorry to hear this. I hope you will have many family and close friends to help you remember and mourn, and remember and laugh. It is very hard to lose a love, but it must have been especially difficult when so far from home and at a time that was supposed to be so happy.

I do hope you will hold tightly to all the good memories. I cannot say the hurt really goes away. It does become easier to remember the good parts with time, and the really sad, bad times come less often with time.

Yours sincerely,
Ruth
Ashwin Joshi
Posted: Wednesday, December 12, 2018 2:58:03 AM

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Dear Ruth,

Someone very special was gone forever from this world and I feel an immense pain, however with your display of affection and affection you have made my heart rejoice. I am grateful to you for your special message that has helped me find peace and tranquility I needed.

Truly, Ashwin.



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Ashwin Joshi
Posted: Monday, April 15, 2019 3:45:40 AM

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Location: Jandiāla Guru, Punjab, India


MY SOULMATE






I still say I Love You,
But now there's no reply.
I always feel your presence
As if you never left my side.

I remember your comforting voice.
Now there's not a sound.
Only echoes from the past
Follow me around.

You're always by my side,
But I can't hold your hand.
The reason why God took you
I find hard to understand.

Summer days seem much shorter.
Dark nights just linger on.
Dreams turn into nightmares
When the one you love has gone.

But real love never fades.
It still burns like the sun.
Although they're far away,
Those memories go on and on.

Her spirit will never die
It shines like the stars.
I know you're sleeping in heaven,
But you're living in my heart.

John P. Read





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